To feel the love of your child
means also to feel the heartbreak
when a child eventually moves away from their parent.
To feel the love of a pet
means also to feel the pain of them dying
when they grow older.
To feel the love of a partner
means also to feel the risk of putting your heart
in their hands.
We, as life, have evolved to feel deep love
and also deep pain.
Many choose to not feel love for something or someone
so they don’t have to feel the pain of losing it.
But the secret many forget
is that by choosing to feel pain so that we can love harder,
the pain eventually becomes more bearable.
Because choosing love in all aspects of life,
in every moment,
builds a little army of love within us.
Because when one pain arises
and wounds one little love warrior in your heart
the other little warriors are there to fight it.
But the only way to build our little army of love warriors
is by choosing to feel pain
so that we can love hard.
Choose your pain
so life doesn’t have to be painful.
